Who would have guessed that lunchtime was the right time to meet “the one”?
Typical Friday afternoon: grab a tuna on rye at the corner deli and return to the office.
Atypical Friday afternoon: call It’s Just Lunch – a service that caters to your craving to meet “the one”!
It’s Just Lunch is a dating service like no other; they’ve eliminated the awkwardness and pressure associated with dating and replaced it with a discreet, no-pressure process. Simply complete an online questionnaire, then meet with an IJL Director to discuss your personality, physical requirements, interests, etc. They will then hand-select the person just right for you. Your interview today can have you on a first date tomorrow!
Dates are usually arranged for lunch, but you can opt for a dinner or brunch meeting. Lunch is preferred because of it’s built in start/end time, which helps keep the first date stomach fluttering to a minimum. Your date will only know your first name – all other information is kept confidential. The rest is up to you…and your date…to make happen. Exchanging business cards/contact information is encouraged and likely, due to IJL’s impressive matchmaking stats!
IJL also offers a “lunchbox of flirting tips and tools” that will help prepare for whatever’s in store. Today’s lunchbox contains: Conversation dos and don’ts:
Conversation Dos
• Do be sincere. If her smile lights up the room, then tell her, but don’t say something just for the sake of it. Insincere compliments are transparent.
• Do be yourself. Whatever’s on your mind and in your heart will be the most natural thing you can
talk about. Remember, they’ll either like you or not. If they like you, great, if not… next! Why waste time
trying to get someone’s approval?
• Do be funny. Being light with a sense of humor helps people let their guard down, which could allow you more room to move in!
• Do say their name a few times; it’ll make them feel special. But don’t say it too much, or you’ll sound
like you just attended a cheesy sales seminar.
• Do keep it positive. Stick to your best attributes and the things you are most positive about. People
become sexier as they talk excitedly and passionately about things that interest them.
• Do have fun with it. It’s all about play!
Conversation Don’ts
• Don’t criticize personal choices, like wearing fur or who they voted for in the last election.
• Don’t hog the conversation. It should flow back and forth like a tennis volley — you hit, they return.
• Don’t start talking about marriage or commitment on the first three dates.
• Don’t use cheesy opening lines like, “Are you an Aquarius?”
It’s Just Lunch isn’t just available to NYC singles; they are located in major cities across the U.S. and around the world – Asia, Australia, Canada, Caribbean and Europe.
